𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝗕𝗜𝗕𝗟𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟?

WHAT IS BIBLICAL?
Singleness and Marriage — Rightly Divided

INTRODUCTION

Many believers ask, “Which is more spiritual—being single or being married?”
The Bible does not exalt one as universally superior. Instead, Paul, writing to the Body of Christ, teaches that both are gifts, each with distinct purposes in this present dispensation of grace.

God’s will is not your status—it is your walk.
1 Corinthians 7:7; Ephesians 5:15–17 (KJV)

① PURPOSE — God’s Design for Both
1 Corinthians 7:7; Romans 12:4–5 (KJV)

A. Different Gifts – Singleness and marriage are both God-given
B. Different Functions – Different callings, same Lord
C. Different Seasons – God assigns according to His purpose
Grace assigns, not society.

② PRIORITY — Devotion to the Lord
1 Corinthians 7:32–35; Colossians 3:17 (KJV)

A. Single Focus – Undistracted service possible in singleness
B. Shared Focus – Marriage requires divided responsibilities
C. Supreme Focus – Christ must remain first
Grace teaches devotion, not distraction.

③ PERSPECTIVE — Redeeming the Time
Ephesians 5:16; 1 Corinthians 7:29 (KJV)

A. Shortness of Time – The present age is brief
B. Serious Calling – Life is not for self-fulfillment
C. Spiritual Urgency – Gospel work matters most
Grace views life through eternity.

④ PURITY — Godliness in Singleness
1 Corinthians 7:34; 1 Thessalonians 4:3–4 (KJV)

A. Holy Affection – Set apart unto the Lord
B. Healthy Contentment – Satisfaction found in Christ
C. Holy Discipline – Self-control empowered by grace
Grace produces holiness, not loneliness.

⑤ PARTNERSHIP — God’s Purpose in Marriage
Genesis 2:24; Ephesians 5:31–32 (KJV)

A. One Flesh Union – A God-ordained bond
B. Mutual Support – Strength through companionship
C. Mystery Revealed – Marriage pictures Christ and the Church
Grace elevates marriage, not idolizes it.

⑥ PRACTICE — Selflessness Required in Marriage
Ephesians 5:25; Philippians 2:3–4 (KJV)

A. Sacrificial Love – Husbands love as Christ loved
B. Submitted Service – Mutual care and honor
C. Sanctifying Influence – Marriage shapes character
Grace teaches dying to self.

⑦ PROGENY — Raising Children God’s Way
Ephesians 6:4; 2 Timothy 1:5 (KJV)

A. Spiritual Instruction – Training in the Word
B. Godly Example – Faith lived, not just taught
C. Generational Impact – Truth passed forward
Grace builds families on truth.

⑧ PROTECTION — Avoiding Burning Desires
1 Corinthians 7:9; Proverbs 6:27–28 (KJV)

A. Legitimate Desire – God acknowledges human need
B. Lawful Outlet – Marriage guards purity
C. Loving Provision – God protects through marriage
Grace provides boundaries, not bondage.

⑨ PERFECTION — Walking Worthy in Either State
Colossians 2:6–7; Philippians 4:11–13 (KJV)

A. Rooted in Christ – Identity not in status
B. Resolved Contentment – Joy in any condition
C. Righteous Walk – Living unto the Lord
Grace defines success by faithfulness.

CALL TO ACTION

Stop comparing callings
Start obeying Scripture rightly divided
Serve Christ fully—single or married
Only let every man walk, as God hath called him
1 Corinthians 7:17 (KJV)

CONCLUSION

Singleness is not incomplete.
Marriage is not superior.
Both exist to serve God’s eternal purpose.
The question is not “Which one do I want?”
The question is “Am I walking faithfully where God placed me?”

FINAL THOUGHTS

Both are gifts from God
Devotion matters more than status
Time is short—serve wisely
Singleness allows undistracted service
Marriage reflects Christ and the Church
Love requires sacrifice
Children must be raised in truth
God provides protection for purity
Grace empowers faithful living