𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗪𝗢𝗥𝗗𝗦 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗟𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗧

𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗪𝗢𝗥𝗗𝗦 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗟𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗧

“For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.” — Matthew 12:34 (KJV)

INTRODUCTION

Words are not neutral. In the Dispensation of Grace, God teaches that speech is a mirror of the heart, not a means of earning righteousness. We are not saved by what we say, but what we say reveals who reigns within us.

The Apostle Paul repeatedly instructs the Body of Christ to let grace, truth, and edification govern our speech (Ephesians 4:29; Colossians 4:6).
This message examines 12 biblical principles showing how a transformed heart produces transformed words.

The SOURCE of Speech

Matthew 12:34
A. Heart Determines Speech — Words flow from inner condition.B. Hidden Reality — Speech reveals what is stored within.C. Honest Revelation — The mouth exposes the heart.
Change the heart, and the words will follow.

The STEWARDSHIP of Words

Matthew 12:36
A. Accountable Speech — Every word matters to God.B. Answerable Saints — Believers will give account (Rom. 14:12).C. Awakened Awareness — Speak with eternity in view.
Grace does not cancel responsibility.

The SILENCE of Wisdom

Proverbs 17:28
A. Silence Shows Discernment — Not every thought needs a voice.B. Speech Restrained — Wisdom knows when not to speak.C. Self-Control Exercised — Silence can be spiritual strength.
Sometimes godliness speaks loudest by staying quiet.

The SAFEGUARD of the Tongue

Proverbs 13:3
A. Guarded Lips Preserve Life — Protection through restraint.B. Gaping Mouth Brings Ruin — Loose speech destroys.C. Godly Discipline — Control reflects maturity.
A guarded tongue protects a godly life.

The SEED of Speech

Proverbs 18:21

A. Words Plant Life — Encouragement builds.

B. Words Plant Death — Harshness destroys.

C. Words Produce Fruit — Every word has consequences. Speak seeds you want to harvest.

The SLOWNESS of Wisdom

Proverbs 29:20

A. Swift Speech Is Dangerous — Rash words reveal folly.

B. Slowness Shows Wisdom — Thoughtful speech honors God.

C. Self-Controlled Responses — Grace governs reactions.

Speed in speech often means regret later.

The SEPARATION from Gossip

Proverbs 11:13

A. Gossip Breaks Trust — Secrets exposed wound others.

B. Godly Speech Protects — Faithful spirits conceal matters.

C. Grace Refuses Rumors — Love covers faults.

Gossip divides what grace seeks to unite.

The SUBMISSION of the Tongue

James 3:5–6

A. Small Member, Great Power — Tongue directs life.

B. Sinful Potential — Untamed tongue causes destruction.

C. Spiritual Control Needed — Submission to the Spirit.

An untamed tongue reveals an untamed heart.

The SEPARATION from Filthiness

Ephesians 5:4

A. Corrupt Speech Rejected — No filthiness or foolish talking.

B. Clean Speech Required — Saints speak differently.

C. Christ-Honoring Language — Speech reflects position in Christ.

Grace cleans the mouth, not excuses it.

The STRENGTHENING of Others

Ephesians 4:29

A. Speech That Builds — Edification over erosion.

B. Speech That Blesses — Minister grace to hearers.

C. Speech That Benefits — Words used as tools, not weapons.

Words should strengthen, not scar.

The SEASONING of Grace

Colossians 4:6

A. Gracious Speech — Words soaked in grace.

B. Grounded Truth — Grace does not mean compromise.

C. Godly Witness — Speech points others to Christ.

Grace-filled words attract open hearts.

The SINCERITY of Truth

Proverbs 12:22

A. Truth Pleases God — Lying dishonors Him.

B. Transparent Speech — No flattery or deceit.

C. Trust-Build Shows Character — Truth sustains relationships.

Truth spoken in love reflects Christ.

CONCLUSION
In the Dispensation of Grace, words do not save—but they testify.A heart transformed by Christ will produce speech marked by truth, grace, wisdom, and love.God is not merely listening to what we say—but why we say it.

CALL TO ACTION
Examine your heart — Words reveal its condition Submit your tongue — Yield it to the Spirit Speak Scripture-shaped speech — Let truth guide tone Show grace in conversation — Represent Christ well
Let your mouth match your new identity in Christ.

FINAL THOUGHTS
Words reveal the heart Grace refines speech Wisdom restrains the tongue Truth strengthens testimony Edifying words glorify God
“Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.”— Psalm 141:3 (KJV)